Online Dating – Things to Consider!

OnlineDatingOnline DatingSo you go to school online, but have you ever tried online dating? Research suggests that about 25% of you who are in a new relationship have because the percentage of couples who meet online is about one in four, and still rising.

The stigma of online dating has long since gone, but a recent study of 1,000 single men and women who belong to leading dating communities uncovered that a staggering amount of dishonesty exists in online dating communities! 53% of American people surveyed said they lied in their online dating profiles!*

The top 10 lies told by men*

  1. Job (better than it is)
  2. Height (taller)
  3. Weight (losing a few pounds)
  4. Physique (athletic)
  5. Money
  6. More senior than they really are at work
  7. Interesting profession
  8. Knowing celebrities
  9. Having an assistant or employees
  10. Working in the film industry
The top 10 lies told by women*

  1. Weight (losing a few pounds)
  2. Age (losing a few years)
  3. Physique (toned)
  4. Height
  5. Money
  6. Bust (gaining proportions)
  7. Glamorous profession
  8. Knowing celebrities
  9. Having an assistant or employees
  10. Working in entertainment

If you do date online here are a few offline safety tips to help you.

Get to know ‘your date’ before meeting offline

Many online dating services don’t do criminal background checks, so use the internet and other resources to do your own research. At the very least, ‘Google’ them and review public information made available by government offices.

Always meet in public

Make sure your first date is in a populated, public place – don’t ever meet at their home or in a private, remote location.

Stay in a public place

Even if the date is going well, don’t go back to their home or bring them back to yours on your first date. If they pressure you, leave immediately.

Tell a friend

Make sure you tell a close friend or family member the 3 ‘Ws’ – Who? When? Where? Always have your cell phone with you with their number saved as a speed dial.

Stay sober

Remember that you’re effectively meeting a stranger, no matter what you have ‘learned’ about your date online. Stay attentive, keep a clear head and make good decisions.

Drive yourself

You always want the flexibility to leave on your own terms – Drive yourself to and from your first date, use valet parking if available, or keep cash in reserve for a taxi if you don’t have a car.

Keep your personal things close

Always have control of your phone, your wallet, your pocketbook… if you go to the restroom, be sure to take it with you.

 

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*Source – Global research agency OpinionMatters.

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One thought on “Online Dating – Things to Consider!

  1. Audrey

    The top 10 lies you mentioned above is really a fact that I could not argue. Probably sometimes people do some lies just to attract others and feel ashamed to tell all the truth about them or maybe they have lack of confidence. Anyway, thank you for your safety tips.

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